The Breath Playshop: A Live 90-Minute Class for Men

A clear, practical framework to stop second-guessing yourself in bed, master attuned touch, and create the best physical connection of your lives.

You’re a smart guy, and you deeply want to please her.

But let’s be honest: sometimes you get in your head during sex.

You second-guess yourself. “Am I doing this right?” You worry about what she’s thinking. “Does she really like this? Does she want something else?”

When you’re up in your head wondering if she’s enjoying herself, you aren’t actually present. The pressure to perform is real, and it takes you completely out of the moment.

The real magic happens when you are confident, in tune with her body, and actually enjoying yourself.

What if there was a way to discern her pleasure in every moment? So that you’re never wondering or worrying if she likes what you’re doing. You just know.

What if there was a way to know what she wanted before she did? So that you could give her the exact touch she craves without her even having to ask for it.

What if she’s been showing you all along? You’ve been listening for the right words or the perfect moans, but she’s been sending you signals on a completely different wavelength; a subtle physical language you just haven’t been taught how to read yet.

I'm going to let you in on a secret...

A secret hidden in plain sight. A secret most men do not know.

Her breath is your compass to her turn-on.

Her breath will tell you:

  • What her words and moans won’t.
  • Exactly when you should keep going and when you should stop.
  • If she is truly turned on, or if she’s just… exaggerating.
  • If she likes what you are doing, or if her body wants something else.
  • Everything you want to know about how she really wants to be touched.


Her breath is the compass to her pleasure, and I want to show you how to use it masterfully.

When you learn this, you drop the performance anxiety. You start having the kind of sex and intimacy you actually want. You feel confident, present, and playful. You please a woman, and yourself, without ever having to overthink it again.

“I learned specific takeaways that I can remember and use: how to be aware of and in sync with a woman and how she wants to be touched. I also gained courage to not worry about my performance.”

— Sam, 42, Denver

“I tried what I learned from Elizabeth with my girlfriend and it turned her on big time!!! I think a lot of guys can gain confidence and skills by watching this workshop. Me included.”

— Dan, 62, Denver

Join me for a 90-minute immersive training.

Learn the exact framework for creating off-the-charts intimacy with the woman in your bed. Allow me to unlock the code to female turn-on and give you a reliable guidance system for the best sex of your lives.

This is for the man who:

Wants more (and better) sex.

Cares deeply about a woman's pleasure and wants to increase it.

Wants to build deeper, more reliable physical intimacy.

Is single, dating, divorced, or married.

Is monogamous or polyamorous.

“I can’t think of a better woman to teach this than Elizabeth. She is articulate, specific, and excellent at describing how to get in the right headspace to please women.”

— Nathan, 35, British Columbia

Inside this training, you will discover how to:

Give her exactly what she wants

Without her even having to ask for it.

Get out of your brain, into your body

So your touch becomes highly intuitive.

Spot the subtle cues

The signals you've been overlooking that she secretly craves.

Touch a woman

The way she really wants to be touched so that she craves you.

Maximize pleasure

(Yours included!) to bring out the absolute best lover in both of you.

“What a refreshing look at touch and male/female lovemaking. Elizabeth has a very engaging way of talking and drawing you into what she covers. I have always wanted to please my partner; this workshop showed me how.”

— Mack, 71, Fort Collins

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this for?

This playshop is for men who want to explore and deepen their experience of physical intimacy and pleasure with women. It’s a safe and welcoming space for men of all levels of experience. Whether you are single, dating, in a committed relationship, or keeping it casual, you belong here. The only prerequisite is that you care about women’s pleasure and want to increase it.

The Breath Playshop is a fun, interactive training that combines information, guided breathing exercises, movement, and visualization. There is no sensual or sexual touch involved.

Bring an open mind, yourself, and a favorite snack! There’s no need for a full meal, but you’re absolutely welcome to bring a light bite to nourish your body while we breathe and connect.

 

No, you do not need a partner. In fact, I highly encourage solo participation, as it provides valuable, undistracted insights into how to build a more fulfilling connection the next time you are with a partner.

Yes, the replay will be sent to everyone who registers!

 

We focus on the mechanics and step-by-step play of how to listen, observe, and unlock your partner’s breathing cues. Additionally, we harness the power of visualization. By imagining and visualizing touch, you activate the exact same pathways in your brain as when you are physically touching. This builds brain synapses and improves your neural wiring for effortless intimacy.

 

No special equipment needed! All you need is a quiet space where you can relax and focus on your breath. Remember: the change you need is in your head, not in your hands.

Great question! While this training provides incredibly valuable tools for enhancing intimacy, becoming a “sex god” is a multi-faceted journey that requires ongoing practice. If you’d like to join the journey to Sex God status, send me an email at guidance@howtotouchwomen.com. I have several deeper programs coming soon that will support you!

We currently do not offer refunds, but we welcome and highly appreciate any feedback you would like to share about your experience.

“Elizabeth got right to the point which was exciting! I’m always looking to improve and she validated that I am on the right track with my girlfriend.”

— Dan, 68, Wheatridge

“I really enjoyed this workshop! I have had some experience in somatic and tantric play and this training was a very nice refresher on things to look for.”

— Steve, 36, Boulder

Still have questions?

Send an email to: guidance@howtotouchwomen.com

Hi, I’m Elizabeth Anneka.

Touch Mentor. Ally to Men. Creator of Connection. 

I’ll teach you how to touch a woman so she craves more of you.

One of the best lovers I’ve ever had was unassuming, bookish, and relatively inexperienced. But he understood something profound: he knew how to get to the very core of a woman’s pleasure…

…and that’s precisely what I intend to teach you.

I promise to provide specific, actionable tools and an insider’s perspective you simply won’t get anywhere else. I will teach you how to touch a woman the way she really, really, really wants to be touched.