
“I translate what women wish they could say into what men actually need to hear.”
Elizabeth Anneka
Intimacy Coach for Men, Women & Couples
Whatever kind of community you lead, chances are the people in it were never really taught how to navigate physical intimacy.
Men were taught to perform. Women learned to endure, explain, or manage the moment. Couples were mostly left to figure it out together.
That’s where my work comes in…
I build on the conversations you’re already having about relationships, self-awareness, communication, and connection by bringing in the piece that often gets missed: the physical language of touch and intimacy.
When we bring practical tools and experiences into the room, we take intimacy off the mental checklist and put it back into the body where it belongs.
I tailor every session, guest spot, and workshop to match the exact tone and focus of your community.
Here are just a few of the topics your audience will love:

When Speaking to Men’s Groups & Communities

When Speaking to Women’s Audiences & Podcasts

When Speaking to Couples & Co-Ed Audiences
1. Interactive Workshops & Retreat Sessions
Bring one of my signature trainings (like Her Breath Is Your Compass) to your community, retreat, or event.
My workshops are non-sexual and highly engaging. I can promise that your people will walk away practical tools they can apply that very night.
2. Podcast & Media Interviews
Invite me for a candid, no-fluff conversation about touch, sex, pleasure, communication, and the things men and women often struggle to say to each other.
I bring a fresh perspective, practical takeaways, and the kind of honest conversation that gives your audience plenty to think about long after the episode ends.
3. Client Referrals & Partnerships
If someone in your community wants to go deeper, there are several ways they can continue working with me, from the Art of Touch Academy to private 1:1 or couples coaching.
I also offer referral partnerships for trusted leaders who want to share my work with the people they serve.
“What Elizabeth is offering is brilliant. In over 40 years of marriage, I learned things in her workshop that rocked my wife’s world. Several things she taught my men’s group were so simple they made me slap myself quietly for not knowing. But that’s just it: we don’t know what we don’t know.”
— Geoff, 65, Relationship Coach & Men’s Group Leader (Erie, CO)
Kevin is the leader of The Round Table men’s group in Colorado. I delivered my signature online workshop to his group, teaching them how to use a woman’s breath as a guide to her arousal.
The group loved the workshop and the results were remarkable! Kevin and his girlfriend experienced some of the best intimacy of their lives that night.
Matt is a dedicated men’s group leader and long-time collaborator from Canada.
When I joined his group to lead a workshop on how to use a woman’s breath as a compass for her turn on, the results spoke for themselves! Let’s just say there were many happy wives and girlfriends that evening (especially Matt’s)!
Want to get a feel for my style before inviting me onto your platform? Here are a few past conversations covering touch, intimacy, relationships, and the questions people don’t always know how to ask.
I joined Jason Lange on the Evolutionary Men podcast for a really honest conversation about what helps intimacy feel connected, responsive, and alive.
We talked about why wanting to please a woman isn’t always the same as knowing how, how touch can become predictable over time, and why her breath can tell you so much about what her body is actually experiencing.
I joined The Authentic Man Podcast for a candid conversation about touch, flirting, and what actually helps a woman feel more open, connected, and turned on.
We talked about why so many men rush without realizing it, how anticipation can be more powerful than certainty, why her breath matters, and how flirting works best when it comes from presence instead of performance.
Explore more of my past conversations and collaborations.
The best collaborations usually start with a good conversation. Maybe you have a podcast, a retreat, a community, or simply an idea you think could be interesting to explore together.
If you’re creating spaces where people are exploring relationships, connection, pleasure, or personal growth, I’d love to see where my work might fit.
Click below to explore a collaboration, bring me into your community, or talk through an idea together.