Ladies, I’ve been there. I know how hard it is to make the choice. Do you say something and risk breaking the mood? Or do you keep silent, hoping he’ll improve?
Will they be hurt? Will they think it’s over? The hardest part is getting the words past your throat.
We often wish our lover could read our mind.
It would be so much easier! More sexy, like in the movies. But guess what? Those scenes are choreographed. Seriously. There’s a job called an ‘Intimacy Coordinator’ dedicated to making onscreen sex look amazing.
In real life, intimacy requires time and tenderness, communication and compassion. Take heart in the knowledge that you will get the passion you desire, if you both want it and choose it. And it won’t take mind-reading.
You’ll need to unlock a different power, just as magical: your voice.