Be Brilliant in the Bedroom

The Intelligent Man’s Guide to the Best Sex of Her Life

You're smart and you want to please her.

But sometimes you get in your head during sex.

You second guess yourself. “Am I doing this right?”
You worry about what she’s thinking. “Does she really like this? Does she want something else?”

You’re not present when you’re up in your head wondering if she enjoys what you’re doing.
The pressure to perform is real and it takes you out of the moment.

The magic happens when you are confident. In tune with her. Enjoying yourself.

What if there was a way to discern her pleasure in every moment?

So that you’re not wondering or worrying if she likes what you’re doing. You know.

What if there was a way to know what she wanted before she did?

So that you could give her the touch she craves without her even having to ask for it.

What if she’s been showing you all along, with her body, in a subtle language you haven’t known how to read?

All this time you’ve been listening for the right words or the perfect moans, but she’s been sending you signals on a whole different wavelength.

I learned specific takeaways that I can remember and use: how to be aware of and in sync with a woman and how she wants to be touched. I also gained the courage to not worry about my performance.


I’m going to let you in on a secret.

A secret hidden in plain sight. 

A secret most men do not know.

Her breath is your compass to her turn on

Her breath will tell you

  • what her words & moans won't.
  • if you should keep going or stop.
  • if she is truly turned on or if she’s…you know…exaggerating.
  • if she likes what you are doing or if she wants something else.
  • everything you want to know about how she really wants to be touched.

Her breath is your compass to her turn on and I want to show you how to use it masterfully.

So that you…

  • have the kind of sex & intimacy you really want.
  • feel confident, present, and playful in the bedroom.
  • please a woman - and yourself - without worrying about it.

Join me for a 90 min training
where you will learn a framework for creating off-the-charts intimacy with the woman in your bed!

Allow me to unlock the code to a woman’s turn on and give you a guidance system for the best sex of your life!

I tried what I learned from Elizabeth with my girlfriend and it turned her on big time!!! I think a lot of guys can gain confidence and skills from this playshop. Me included.


This is for men who:

  • Want more and better sex.
  • Are monogamous or polyamorous.
  • Want deeper intimacy with women.
  • Are divorced, dating, in a relationship, or married.
  • Care about a woman's pleasure and want to increase it.

You will learn how to...

  • Give her exactly what she wants… without her even having to ask for it.
  • Touch a woman the way she really wants to be touched so that she craves you.
  • Bring out the best lover in both of you so you have the best sex of your lives.


  • A tool to get you out of your brain and into your body so that your touch is intuitive.
  • The simple things you have been overlooking in the bedroom that she really wants.
  • Techniques for touching a woman so that you maximize her pleasure…and yours too.

I can’t think of a better woman to teach this than Elizabeth. She is articulate, specific, and excellent at describing how to get in the right headspace to please women.


Who Am I?

I’m Elizabeth Anneka and I have a confession.
I love men.
I love how hard you try and the deep desire you have to please women.

Consider me your ally in all things touch.
Together, we will navigate physical intimacy with women.

One of the best lovers I’ve had was someone I would never have guessed beforehand. He was unassuming, bookish, and relatively inexperienced. But he just knew how to get to the core of a woman’s pleasure…

...and that’s precisely what I intend to teach you.

I promise to provide specific suggestions and an insider perspective you won’t get anywhere else. I will teach you to touch women the way they really, really, really want to be touched.
This is not just for you, but for all the women out there yearning to have sexy physical intimacy with you!

Frequently Asked Questions

Who is this for?

This playshop is for men who want to explore and deepen their experience of physical intimacy and pleasure with women. It's a safe and welcoming space for men of all levels of experience and relationship status. This is for you if you are single, dating, in a relationship, or keeping it casual. The only prerequisite is that you care about women’s pleasure and want to increase it.

How does it work?

The Breath Playshop is a 2+hour workshop that occurs online or in person. It's designed to be a fun and interactive experience that combines guided breathing exercises, movement, partnered exercises with other men (optional), information, and visualization. There is no sensual or sexual touch. 

What do I need to bring to the Playshop?

An open mind, yourself and dinner! The Breath Playshop is hosted during dinner hour. I encourage you to bring your own dinner or favorite snack so you can enjoy the playshop while nourishing your body.

Do I need a partner to join the Playshop?

No, you do not need a partner to join the playshop. In fact, I encourage solo participation as it can provide valuable insights into how to enjoy a more fulfilling intimate connection when you are with a partner. 

I am unable to make it to online Playshop, will the replay be available?

Yes, the replay will be available to everyone who registers.

How will I learn how to touch without actually touching? 

The breath playshop focuses on learning the actual technique and step by step play of how to touch your partner and discovering the art of how to listen, observe and unlock your partner’s breathing ques and create pleasure through these ques. 

Additionally, we harness the power of visualization. By imagining and visualizing touch, you activate the same pathways in your brain as when you are actually touching. This builds brain synapses and improves neural wiring for effortless intimacy. 

Do I need any special equipment to participate in the online workshop?

No, you do not need any special equipment to participate in the online workshop. All you need is a quiet space where you can relax and focus on your breath.  Remember, the change you need is in your head, not in your hands.

Will this playshop make me a sex god?

While the Breath Playshop can provide valuable insights and techniques for enhancing intimacy and pleasure, becoming a "sex god" is a multi-faceted journey that requires ongoing practice and learning. If you’d like to join the journey to Sex God, schedule a call with me. 

Are refunds available?

We currently do not offer any refunds but we welcome and highly appreciate any feedback you would like to share about your experience.

I hope this helps. Let us know if you have any further questions by sending an email here:

I really enjoyed this workshop! It’s a great primer for some additional work. I have had some experience in somatic and tantric play and this training was a very nice refresher on things to look for.

- Steve, 36, Boulder

What a refreshing look at touch and male/female lovemaking. Elizabeth has a very engaging way of talking and drawing you in to what she covers. I have always wanted to please my partner; this workshop showed me how.

- Mack, 71, Fort Collins

Elizabeth’s desire to support men is clearly evident. She empathizes with what it’s like to be a man in the dating world, navigating the mysteries of what women want. Learning such specific ways for how to touch a woman feels like a real gift.

- Ryan, 38, Boulder

Elizabeth got right to the point which was exciting! I’m always looking to improve and she validated that I am on the right track with my girlfriend.

- Dan, 68, Wheatridge